Bareback Sex

One of the greatest issues but most individuals today concerning their sexuality is that there is no authenticity. We have learned to bear their bodies to have sex with another without Learning to first build true intimacy.

True intimacy begins with a deeper knowledge of one’s sexual self. Would you give someone a gift without first knowing what’s inside? Having sex with someone without first having intimate knowledge of one’s self is like giving someone that mystery box.
You may be a bit concerned if they don’t “ooh” and “ahh” over the packaging thinking didn’t they understand what all you went through to present it so well?

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You might become a bit nervous at the thought of them opening the package and being disappointed at the contents inside and you may begin to imagine all sorts of scenarios in your head such as “What will they see?” “What will they think?” Worst of all, “What if they don’t like it and they don’t tell me….will they fake it or return it?”

In order to experience true sexual intimacy with another human being you must learn to face your own sexual truths including any misconceptions, shame, fears, and doubts. Be honest about who you are as a sexual being and what it is that you desire from another in order to achieve any semblance of satisfaction. Great sex is a delicate balance between giving and receiving really and without judgment or shame.

Healthy sexual self-esteem (self schema) comes from an ability to bare it all body, heart, mind, and spirit without shame or fear. Bring back your innate joy and curiosity about sex. Investigate, explore, and dig deep to find your authentic sexual identity. Sometimes this means seeking professional help to improve your sexual self-esteem or simply learning to enhance your sexual communication with your partner.

Innocence Smith, M.S. Psychology; A.C.S. Holistic Sexologist

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